Well there I would have to disagree. What matters, theologically, is whether agape is being attained, as that is the ‘commandment’ of John 13:34. It might be useful to note that ‘eros’ is not a biblical word, but that sexual love is clearly indicated as part of agape. It’s the word used in the LXX throughout the Song of Songs, of Samson & Delilah, of many places where sex is clearly occurring.