Thank you. I think I was following you. But that God would be expected to pair unlike people isn't clear, and that God really doesn't favor external beauty is very unclear. If God looks on the inside in 1 Sam 16:7, we couldn't overlook the references to David's physical appeal a few lines down in 16:12: "He was glowing with health and had a fine appearance and handsome features." This is not insignificant information.

Or note the Philistine leader addressing David in 1 Sam 29:9: “I know that you have been as pleasing in my eyes as an angel of God…"

I'm not finding a suggestion of a deity who is really indifferent to physical charms. It seems to be a God who is well-known to keep beauties around him.