I hear you saying: The 10 Commandments, prophets and feminists tell me that porn is bad.

Well, Jewish law is not for Christians (Heb 8:13), what prophets are really saying is deeply unclear, and feminism is against men controlling women! — waging, on those grounds, even more ferocious combat against male-centered traditional Christianity.

I’d say: you scan for tools to affirm your ability to judge others.