Ok, let’s go over facts. A purity violation is a specific event—an encroachment on the temple space by another deity. Human sexuality itself is never a violation. Eli’s sons were not Yahwists (1 Sam 2:12). Their violation was bringing another deity into the temple.

Adultery is a property violation in biblical law, a seizure of an owned female. The punishment is death, so if you’re citing it as a law for Christians you’re making death threats. Evil.

Sex without marriage is not a violation in any biblical law — the specific claim of the Evangelical purity culture.

Get facts and get Jesus.